Senin, 06 Januari 2014

Learn to make friends and be a social maverik...!!!

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Learn to make friends and be a social maverik...!!!
Is that person on the corner of the room making friends whomever he meets, Surprised? Whereever they go, they make
friends. They do not leave a choice, they end up making friends from lift operators to billionnaires to hot chicks. What makes that so special that everyone wants to be a friend with him?
How does he solve the mystery of befriending, each and every one he meets? Traits that are required for being a
guru in making friends are many. Of the many, some important ones have been listed below, follow them and develop them for our benefit. I am sure it will also help you
make yourself as a better individual.

a. Proper eye contact is a must

Making a sound and steady eye connection talks about thousand things and is one of the vital trail
to have as an individual. While talking to people make
sure you have a good eye contact. It would tell a lot of positive things about you. Make
sure that the eye contact is brought down only by the other person, not by you. If you have done this, not to worry, from then on you will be
considered to be a powerful and toned personality. Thats enough, as a starter to make friends. This trait is probably the most important character of a person of the lot we are going to discuss going on.

b. Reflect Confidence

Feeling low on confidence?
If yes, then start working on enhancing your confidence. Make sure you work on
you mind and body which inturn are the boosters of your confidence. Head to the gym, join a club etc in order to make your mind and body be in tandem and in peace.

c. Being Humorous helps Let
it flow in your blood.

Let people recongnize as you the one with cheering up skills. Why do comedians have
so many friends, all because they are good at enhancing the moods of people and make them relax. Be the favorite of the crowd
with your humor. That is when you start making friends from all walks of life.

d. Learn to initiate the conversation

Be the first one to start the conversation. All I am saying here is do not wait for people to approach, if
you think that girl you see is gorgeous and you want to befriend her, go ahead ping her. Almost any topic should be fine. If you
see that waiter, tell him that his clothes are really good and he looks awesome today.

e. Start with a small talk.

Small is sweet, hence start the conversation through a small talk. For example, if you are in a cab, ask the driver what his name is and where he is from. That should
be enough to start with.

f. Listen to whatever the other one has to say..

You would have heard this from many. You all know about this.
The
best out come of listening properly is that you will be able to identify topics in which the other person is interested in. All I am saying is Listening helps a ton. !! Listening helps in
finding the similarities between you and you can deviate the conversation how ever you want, so that you doesnt look stupid by picking an unknown topic. Then on you will be comfortable to invite her to places with your common areas of interests - Library, Museums, Games etc For example, if the other person is interested in arts and
paintings, invite her to an art gallery or museum.

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